I have been narrowing down everything in my life into two categories. Things I can do something about and things that I can not do anything about.
I am speaking from personal experience when I say that I think we spend too much time dwelling on things that we can not control. Everything from our partners, what our co-workers or bosses are doing, to the way we look .
It is a harsh reality that we can control a very small percentage of what goes on in our lives. When you start letting go of what you can not control your world starts changing.
On a personal level, if there is something about you that you can not change it is not a weakness, these are the things that define you and your unique perspective of the world. Lean into your perceived weaknesses and share them with the world. You may be surprised at who shows up to thank you for doing so.